Same ol Same ol,,,
Haven't seen or heard from J today,,,and just tried to call, no answer. hmmmm...
Need to get a laundry going, but,,,here i am. This time of year is not good for me,,always get down. I know i just have to get thru it, and it will get better. When the kids grow up,,,Christmas is just not the same. And there's no little ones in my family, in fact, we are at the end of the line. One g/child, and she's not ever gonna have any. So that's it. Coming from such a big family,,,i never saw this coming. My son J,,,might be getting married but she's past the age of having kids too. How many of yall have this situation? Just curious.
I did finally get things straightened out with Verizon, but having to wait til next week to pay my bill. I'm having to wait for all the changes to take effect, like my canceling my online account, so i can go back and sign back on again. They put it on hold til the 20th so i have time. And i think i'm getting a paper bill in the mail, so i can do it that way this one time.
One time, i had spent hours and hours trying to straighten out another bill, so i finally told em,,i'm billing YOU for MY time, and made sure i charged them more that what we were arguing about.... lolol,,,they left me alone after that. Why do they assume your time is worth nothing?
Ok,,laundry time,,yall tc, and
HAGD
We have an only child she is 35 never really wants to get married have kids or anything near it..But we are happy with her and her decisions, where is it written that a lady has to marry and have children, I enjoy other peoples grand kids and also spoil those at the pantry where both my hubbs and I volunteer..Most are from countries with no birth control and love big families, their kids are so cute and well behaved, won't ever be seeing them in the police blotter in our local newspaper, they take care of their parents and siblings, not like in our country..I love cuddling the wee ones, reading books to them and holding and diapering the wee ones..they never complain and are so sweet and loving, it warms my heart.Love your blog a lot, I like you tell it like it is, must be sweet to live in the sweet country of Texas, our only had a nice boyfriend from Austin, his parents send me chilis and good from that region still praying our only would consider marrying him, he is just wonderful still friends..loved and still love Texas and Austin all of it. Merriest of Chritsmases and Healthiest and Happiest of New Years in 2013..ciao!~
ReplyDeleteThank you sooo much. And i respect her wishes too. I was just saying it's the end of the line as far as my immediate family is concerned. I had 2 other sons, lost one as an infant and the other when he was 16. Who knows how life would have turned out otherwise.
DeleteI only have one grandson and as far as I know he is still single.
ReplyDeleteMy g/dotter's hubby wants kids, or did when they got married. She has this thing of,,,there's so many now that need homes,,why bring more into the world, especially like it is now.
DeleteYou are not alone. Seems there are a lot of us that celebrate the holidays by ourselves. It is not an easy time to get thru, but then again, being able to do what we want when we want has its' benefits. I don't think any of us saw this coming.
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I have lots of family, and we do celebrate together. This is brothers, and a sister and their kids,,lots of em. I guess i'm talking about my own immediate one,,you know.
DeleteI am an only child. I married but I did not want to have kids until I was sure that it was going to work out with my hubby and it didn't.
ReplyDeleteHaving kids was never big on my agenda anyway and I have never regretted my decision. So when I die, that's it...the end of the line.
I was one of 6, so i know how much we enjoyed it.
DeleteI have 4 children and 8 living grandchildren. We will be together for the first time in a few years this Christmas. I am so blessed in that regard.
ReplyDeleteThat is wonderful!
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